The Bradford Pear Tree

The school that I teach at is shaped like a donut.  In the middle of the donut is a concrete area, several grass patches, and three huge Bradford Pear trees.  If you have ever seen a Bradford Pear tree in...

Surviving a Trigger Day

Upon sitting down in church this morning, a woman sitting near us turned to me and asked, “Did you have your baby?” I forced a smile as my heart raced and responded, “ Yes.” She congratulated me and I thanked...

A Very Valuable Lesson

“How has your day been today?” asks a smiling girl at the beginning of my last class of the day.  Her jeans are too small and have holes.  I have a feeling that things are rough at home for her. ...

The Suicide of a High School Senior

Yesterday, I posted a blog entry about the numerous issues that students face and the role that we as teachers can play in combatting them.  (Click here to read it.) Upon arriving at work this morning, I received word that...

That’s What It’s All About

Last May, I resigned from the 8th grade teaching position that I had held since moving to the area two years prior. The plan was for me to stay home with our daughter after she was born in July. However,...

For All The Saints

November 1st has always been a day of celebration in our family. Not only is it All Saints’ Day, it is my sister’s birthday! This year, the first of November takes on a special meaning. As Catholics, on All Saints’...

Our First “Holiday”

Initially, when I thought about which days would likely be the most difficult after Isabelle passed away, her birthday, Thanksgiving, and Christmas were on the top of my list. I never considered that Halloween might trigger some strong emotions. A...

A Mug in the Closet

Recently, I received my first baby shower invitation since losing my daughter. I am not angry about it. I am sure the sender was conflicted as to whether I would be offended from not getting an invite at all, or...